These days there seems to be a reality show for just about everything. From Toddlers and Tiara’s to the Bachelor, these shows seem to catch every dramatic moment on camera. The Lifetime Network’s hit show Dance Moms is no exception. The series follows the Abby Lee Dance Company, including the director Abby Lee Miller, the dancers and, as you could have guessed, their mothers. What could be so interesting about that? From someone who has grown up around my own mother’s dance studio, I can assure you that this dance company is unlike any other.
Dance Moms has viewers hooked on the continuous drama packed into every episode. Throughout the series, the audience becomes aware of the flow of things at Abby Lee Dance Company. Starring as a sort of main character, Miller is seen as the drill sergeant-like teacher that never seems to be pleased. In each episode, viewers see Miller pushing her company dancers to their breaking point. All of the company dancers featured in the show display a great amount of respect for Miller that is reflected as fear. The young dancer’s mothers share this same feeling of intimidation as Miller holds their mothers accountable for their daughter’s performance. These circumstances prove that Miller refuses to take second place as an answer.
Watching the show leaves an impression that the dancers no longer see being a part of the company as fun, but more as an unconquerable challenge. Though the show may be known for the intensity and Miller’s obsession with success, I think that the kids should be in an environment where hard work is appreciated. These talented dancers should be learning that winning is not the most important thing, and doing your best is.
I am not the first to address the controversy of the show. Many viewers and critics have labeled the show as overexposure of the young dancers. Though the dancers may be fond of the sudden stardom now, the parents and producers have made a major decision for the children that may affect their future. Like any other reality show, the intentions of the characters are never clear, but entertainment value seems to come before all of that. Tune in to Lifetime on Tuesdays at 8 pm to take a personal look at the drama-filled, dancing divas.
